The first question people asked when I got married was “does anything feel different?” and naturally I would say “no, were just married now”, but five months in I can tell you that, everything feels different. Everything changed. Not in a bad way. I am more in love with this man than I have ever been in the 9 years we have been together. The thing about being married is that you finally get to just relax. When you’re boyfriend and girlfriend you’re wondering when you’ll be engaged. When you’re engaged you’re wondering when you’ll be married. Those little anxieties make it hard to just focus on love. You’re always anticipating what’s coming next but once you’re married, that’s it. You can just chill.
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